When a woman starts experiencing Perimenopause symptoms, it is important to understand that she may not be the same person as she was before the onset of such changes. Her body is going through a lot and the first thing she needs is the support and care of those around her. For a while she will be going through different mood swings and she will be behaving differently. If you happen to be with a woman going through this phase in her life, try and stock up on patience and understanding, soon the initial adjustment stage will pass and she will resume to living a happy and contented life with you.
There are numerous Perimenopause symptoms that a woman may experience long before her reproductive system actually stops ovulating. Because of the decrease of the production of progesterone in her body, a woman may experience unexplained weight gain, irritability, and fatigue. Apart from that, she may also feel certain cravings for caffeine and sweets all the while feeling less likely to increase in sexual activities that both of you used to enjoy. These are all normal and should not be cause for alarm unless they are accompanied by other symptoms not related to menopause. To be certain, it is advisable that she talks to a well trained gynaecologist about them, that way proper tests can be done to eliminate all other possibilities.
There are several help groups that you can encourage a woman who is going through this normal phase to attend. Of course, deciding which one to consider or even if she is going to any of them will depend largely on her preference. Ask her nicely and be as sensitive and as understanding as you can. Avoid inducing her to feel anything negative that could aggravate her already raw nerves. With much patience and loving care, the Perimenopause symptoms can breeze through her life and yours without causing too much strain on your relationship.